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Yourself









                                            Are  you  planning  to  look  for  the
                                            ‘new  you’  this  year  at  college?

                                            You may want to read this first.

                                            Fall  classes  have  begun.  It’s  a  new  year,  a  fresh  start,  and  a  good  time  to  reinvent
                                            yourself.  Some of us might be away from our parents for the first time. Some of us
                                            might  be  returning  back  to  school,  determined  not  to  make  the  same  bad  run  of
                                            decisions as last year. Maybe some of us are just happy to be away from the parents
                                            and  want  to  strike  out  on  our  own.  Whatever  the  case,  college  is  often  seen  as  the
                                            prime time to reinvent ourselves and experiment with the possibilities.

                                            If  you’re  approaching  this  year  thinking,  “I  want  to  start  over  and  reinvent  myself,”
                                            chances  are  you’re  looking  for  a  good  place  to  begin.  You  could  Google  it,  and  you
                                            would probably come up with various wikis, life-hacker articles, and blogs telling you
                                            they have the secrets (as long as you buy their book).
                                   REINVENTING

                                            Before starting out on the quest to become the “new you”, maybe it would be a good
                                            idea  to  first  hash  out  what’s  wrong  to  begin  with.  Why  do  we  constantly  want  a
                                            reinvented life? Is there something wrong with us that needs changing? Are we sick of
                                            the person we have become? Are we sick of the bad choices we inevitably make over
                                            and over?

                                            Taking a look at who we are can help us understand why we want to change. After all,
                                            anyone who desires to change is clearly not satisfied with what’s there. This desire to
                                            change hints at the fact that we know something is wrong — something deeper than
                                            our character flaws.

                                            If  who  we  are  is  summed  up  by  where  we  go  to  school,  our  talents,  our  likes  and
                                            dislikes,  our  looks,  or  our  personality,  then  change  is  purely  a  matter  of  behavioral
                                            modification. This can lead to a long list of New Year’s resolutions that fall flat by mid-
                                            February.  We  try  to  reinvent  ourselves  into  who  we  want  to  be  (skinnier,  smarter,
                                            happier,  more  assertive),  but  we  end  up  disappointing  ourselves  because  there  are
                                            deeper issues in our heart that keep creeping up and ruining our reinvention.

                                            Perhaps it’s time to consider that, as self-sufficient as our culture has hammered us into
                                            thinking  we  are,  the  power  to  change  is  not  found  within  because  we  are  helpless
                                            sinners. Instead, powerful change has to come from an outside source that doesn’t have
                                            a tainted heart. The Bible says that only God is pure and He can bring lasting change
                                            into our lives. If we are willing to consider this option, we need to know what God has
                                            to say about it.
                                              According to the Bible, there are two important things to know about who we are:
                  SToP                      1. We are created in the image of God.




                                            “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male
                                            and female he created them.” —Genesis 1:27


                                            2. We have sinned against Him. As a result, the world has been thrown into chaos. This



     18                                     is ultimately why our lives are so painful, why there is so much suffering and darkness.
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