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DEALING WITH DISILLUSIONMENT                  anyone  who  is  brave  enough  and  humble  enough
                It’s  possible  that  you  could  get  everything  you’ve   to listen.
                ever wanted and still be unsatisfied. Award-winning
                actor  and  comedian  Jim  Carrey  can  attest  to  this.   With nearly endless resources, this king was able to
                After  a  successful  acting  career  involving  over  58   craft a life for himself that should have been, by all
                movies and cultivating a net worth of $180 million,   accounts, supremely satisfying. First, he pursued a
                you  might  think  he  would  feel  satisfied  with   good education (Ecclesiastes 1:12-18). He observed
                everything he’s accomplished. However, that’s not   everything  and  accumulated  a  vast  amount  of
                the case. Instead of talking about how fulfilling his   knowledge.  But  the  more  he  learned,  the  more
                life has been, he advises that “...everybody should   depressed  he  got.  So,  he  decided  to  go  after
                get  rich  and  famous  and  do  everything  they  ever   pleasure instead (2:1-11). He drank good wine, built
                dreamed  of,  so  they  can  see  that  it's  not    a  beautiful  home,  hired  lots  of  employees,
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                the answer.”                                  accumulated treasures, enjoyed the arts, and slept
                                                              with lots of women. But none of those things were
                Jim Carrey is not alone in his disillusionment. This is   quite satisfying either.
                a  very  common  occurrence.  In  fact,  British  author
                C.S.  Lewis  wrote  about  it  as  well.  He  explains  the   Finally, he decided to invest in his career and just
                disappointment  by  saying,  “There  was  something   work  hard  (2:18-20).  But  even  in  that,  he  realized
                we  grasped  at,  in  that  first  moment  of  longing,   that he would die and someone else would inherit
                which just fades away in the reality...The wife may   the  results  of  all  his  hard  work.  Thirty-eight  times
                be  a  good  wife,  and  the  hotels  and  scenery  may   during  the  book,  you  can  almost  see  the  king
                have been excellent, and chemistry may be a very   throwing up his hands in frustration as he repeats:
                interesting job: but something has evaded us.” 2    “It is all meaningless, like chasing the wind!” Even
                                                              with  all  his  unending  resources,  something  had
                If  you’re  honest  with  yourself,  you  know  exactly   evaded him.
                what these two men are talking about. We’ve all set
                our  sights  on  something,  held  it  within  our  grasp,   At  the  end  of  the  book,  he  specifically  addresses
                and  then  were  unexpectedly  left  wanting.  It’s   those just starting out in life (12:1). Fueled by years
                frustrating  and  unsettling.  Many  people  come  to   of  painful  experience  and  disappointment,  he
                the  conclusion  that  they’ve  simply  chosen  the   summarizes what he’s learned and implores readers
                wrong  thing.  They  go  looking  for  a  new  spouse,   to  take  a  different  path  than  he  had.  He  explains
                another job, a better group of friends. But what if   that  the  things  in  this  world  are  wonderful  and
                you never find what you’re looking for? Others give   should be enjoyed, but that they’re not meant to be
                into cynicism and bitterness. But what if there’s a   what  life  is  all  about.  No  amount  of achievement,
                better way?                                   pleasure, possession, or relationship is ever going to
                                                              be enough to satisfy you. And in the end, they will
                LIFE ADVICE FROM A MAN WHO HAD IT ALL         all slip through your fingers.
                The  Bible  doesn’t  shy  away  from  the  fact  that
                pursuing  your  dream  life  can  be  disappointing.  In   So,  the  king  points  us  down  a  quite  uncommon
                fact, the entire book of Ecclesiastes is dedicated to   path. He implores us to look outside the walls of our
                this uncomfortable reality. Written by an extremely   world for our purpose. Instead of focusing on what
                wealthy  and  successful  king  towards  the  end  of    we  can  see  or  feel,  he  begs  that  we  focus  on  the
                his  life,  Ecclesiastes  offers  a  cautionary  tale  to    God who created it all (12:13).

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                  1 - “A Quote by Jim Carrey.” Goodreads, Goodreads, www.goodreads.com/quotes/1151805-i-think-everybody-should-get-rich-and-famous-and-do.
                  2 - Mere Christianity, by Lewis C S (Clive Staples), Simon and Schuster, 1996.    WORD ON THE STREET MAGAZINE    13
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